Housewife Things I Don't Like
I've been a housewife for two weeks. I already have a list of things I don't like. I'm not sure if I have a list of 10; we'll see how far I get.
In no particular order:
1. Multitasking. It's not just regular multitasking. I used to multitask at work. It's not the same thing. Multitasking at home is more like...MICRO-multitasking. Kira will nap for 30-45 minutes at random times during the day. And during these naps, I do my best to get as many chores done as possible. So, I try to do things that can continue without me having to watch it. Like, laundry, and the dishwasher. But, getting the laundry together will sometimes take anywhere from 10-15 minutes owing to the sorting task. By the time I'm done and the clothes are in the washer, I only have a few more minutes to do more unitasking things, like writing blog entries, or reading. And, by the time I get to the "unitask," Kira wakes up 5 minutes into it.
2. Junk food. Breakfast and lunch are not usually a problem. We always have breakfast foods in the house (e.g., bagels, coffee, juice, toast), and lunch is not usually a problem because Trev and I are good about freezing meals every now and then, or keeping leftovers from last night's dinner. But (probably due to the micro-multitasking), I'll need a snack. Cookies are really fast snacks. No prep. The bad thing is that before I know it, I've eaten 5 cookies! I'm less worried about my body image, and more worried about Kira's nutrition. I feel like should be eating something with vitamins, or antioxidants or something like that. But cookies are easy, and most of the time, I don't even think about it. I have to make a conscious effort to eat something better.
3. No one to talk to. I don't want to sound pathetic. I have lots of friends who care about me and ask me how I'm doing. But during the day, they are all at work! I can't call and have a chat with anyone. I guess most people can spare 10 minutes on the phone. But, 10 minutes is not much of a phone conversation. Furthermore, I would be afraid of not having anything to talk about! All I have are Kira stories.
4. Keeping Kira entertained. Sometimes it's so boring with just me and Kira at home. She stares at me and I just stare at her. She's probably bored, too. I try to remind myself that there are plenty of things to do with Kira, like singing, playing on her playmat, and taking a walk. The walk thing hasn't worked out because it's been cold and rainy. The worst is when Kira is just fussy and wants nothing more than to be held as I walk around the house trying to do things with one hand.
5. Repetition. I always have the same chores to do. Emptying out the dishwasher. Laundry. Putting away the clutter. I would love to do other things like tracking spending, washing the windows, or scrapbooking. But, these things require more time. Given I have 30-45 minutes everynow and then, I use it to do the things that need to get done everyday (i.e., dishwashing, laundry, organizing).
Ok, I think that's it. Maybe I'm just in a bad mood. I've been in a funk lately. I hope to feel better about everything very soon.
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-joanna