Housewife Things I Don't Like

I've been a housewife for two weeks.  I already have a list of things I don't like.  I'm not sure if I have a list of 10; we'll see how far I get.

In no particular order:

1. Multitasking.  It's not just regular multitasking.  I used to multitask at work.  It's not the same thing.  Multitasking at home is more like...MICRO-multitasking.  Kira will nap for 30-45 minutes at random times during the day.  And during these naps, I do my best to get as many chores done as possible.  So, I try to do things that can continue without me having to watch it.  Like, laundry, and the dishwasher.  But, getting the laundry together will sometimes take anywhere from 10-15 minutes owing to the sorting task.  By the time I'm done and the clothes are in the washer, I only have a few more minutes to do more unitasking things, like writing blog entries, or reading.  And, by the time I get to the "unitask," Kira wakes up 5 minutes into it.

2. Junk food.  Breakfast and lunch are not usually a problem.  We always have breakfast foods in the house  (e.g., bagels, coffee, juice, toast), and lunch is not usually a problem because Trev and I are good about freezing meals every now and then, or keeping leftovers from last night's dinner.  But (probably due to the micro-multitasking), I'll need a snack.  Cookies are really fast snacks.  No prep.  The bad thing is that before I know it, I've eaten 5 cookies!  I'm less worried about my body image, and more worried about Kira's nutrition.  I feel like should be eating something with vitamins, or antioxidants or something like that.  But cookies are easy, and most of the time, I don't even think about it.  I have to make a conscious effort to eat something better.

3. No one to talk to.  I don't want to sound pathetic.  I have lots of friends who care about me and ask me how I'm doing.  But during the day, they are all at work!  I can't call and have a chat with anyone.  I guess most people can spare 10 minutes on the phone.  But, 10 minutes is not much of a phone conversation.  Furthermore, I would be afraid of not having anything to talk about!  All I have are Kira stories.

4. Keeping Kira entertained.  Sometimes it's so boring with just me and Kira at home.  She stares at me and I just stare at her.  She's probably bored, too.  I try to remind myself that there are plenty of things to do with Kira, like singing, playing on her playmat, and taking a walk.  The walk thing hasn't worked out because it's been cold and rainy.  The worst is when Kira is just fussy and wants nothing more than to be held as I walk around the house trying to do things with one hand.

5. Repetition.  I always have the same chores to do.  Emptying out the dishwasher.  Laundry.  Putting away the clutter.  I would love to do other things like tracking spending, washing the windows, or scrapbooking.  But, these things require more time.  Given I have 30-45 minutes everynow and then, I use it to do the things that need to get done everyday (i.e., dishwashing, laundry, organizing).

Ok, I think that's it.  Maybe I'm just in a bad mood.  I've been in a funk lately.  I hope to feel better about everything very soon.

Comments

Anonymous said…
my mom tells me that when she had me and my sister that it was very repetitive, and that's why she wants to give me as much help as possible, to break up the repetition and give me a chance to something of my own. you're not the only one. i agree too. you can call me at work if you want to talk. it'd be like you were still there sorta. i still can't believe you are not there.
-joanna

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